The greatest fear!

The greatest fear!

We all have come across situation when the anxious thorugts kill us. Some regrets , fears, loses ..each and every in earth went through atleast of this wonderful once in their life and that takes their major part of life. When am writing this i just got someone reminded she was always afraid if her boyfriend breakup her. It was her highschool crush and when she became mature that became her love of life. Since we are just outside people who just watch other lifes in their own vision we cannot judge or define someone's life easily.   

                Even though am just saying what i had seen. There could be some unforeseen issue. Her love forced for breakup and we could see someone who begging not to separate. That fear killing her each and every time. Even though they United i bet she must have gone through the feeling of fear that when he will go for another breakup.

Similar to this we definitely come across some dilemma, fear or challenges. I have read one story from Dr Vincent Peal, it's scattered memory because i read long ago . But i believe it's the right time to write this.Since i. could not recollect the names, am giving names* "Margret, The woman in her late 50s was overwhelmed with anxiety and despair. Start each day with the thought of what the damn will be today. It was like that, pushing every moment like an era. She once said that she had ruined the lives of her husband and children . She was in utter regret and urge to apology to her family. She hated her own children. She thought that even God had abandoned her. But in reality it was only some psychological phenomena that brought her in such belief.

She was the daughter of a doctor and was very attached to her father. She aspired to become a doctor like her father. But his father passed away in her earliest fifteenth. Later then She was brought up by her grandmother. But her grandmother did not respect that she wish to become a doctor. A few years later she got married. There were three children. After that she became very depressed.

The reason for her unhappiness was that their life's desire was not fulfilled. She thought that her husband and children stood in her way. So she hated them. She also had a sense of guilt about not fulfilling her obligations to her husband and children. Thus she were completely exhausted by the pressure of anxiety, frustration and guilt.

The psychologists who treated them said that there was no need to engage in self-criticism and that there was no relief from despair by approaching problems intellectually. 

When viewing these life im thinking that if we worry then we will suffer twice. Theres only one way to get rid of which is nothing but finding a way to sort this rather than blaming someone or regret. We can never edit the past but we can on present within limited time. Else it will be burden in every moment in this short life. It's just avoid intrusive thoughts ignore toxic whatever it could be. Dream for your best version, kind to others, love unconditionally . 

Thanks for reading :)